Thanks ladies. I'm so grateful there is a place I can go where women understand the pain.

Tan - yep, she knows what's going on. I guess that's one of the reasons I'm really upset/angry/bitter. The way she announced it was pretty hard to deal with. I guess its one of those things that if you haven't had a loss yourself, you really have no idea how much of a knife through the heart someone else's pregnancy can be.